Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Who's to Judge?

Today I have been thinking about things that really bother me.  Mainly it's a problem that most people are guilty of, which is totally wrong...

JUDGING!!!

I have been judged harshly so I now what it feels like to be judged.  However, who is anyone to judge another? The feeling of being judged is a horrible feeling because you feel that you have done something wrong, but in reality your just making due with what has been given to you. 

People are judged for a number of reasons...

LOOKS
FINANCIAL STATUS
CHOICE OF LIFESTYLE
POLITIC DIFFERENCES
CLOTHING
RELIGION
The list can go on and on!

Judging another when one doesn't know the circumstances or the story of the person being judged is just wrong.  I have learned not to judge because I have been though enough judgement in my life.  At times I am curious of another, but if I really want to know why I have learned to ask questions to the person, not from another person who assumes they know.  If the person is willing to share, they will.When I have had information shared with me, instead of judging I think most often "Glad that's not my life"!

So before sitting back and thinking a person is wrong or has a problem and judging them for their life circumstance, why not  ask questions before  looking through your rose colored glasses and think you are high and mighty.  

This morning, I saw that one of my harshest judges is learning a great lesson in life.  Before you cast stones in judgement, try walking a mile in the other persons shoes for awhile.  Then maybe you will understand better what lead someone to where they are today

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